Greta Kaplan, CPDT, CDBC
On one list I belong to, someone recently noted that her shy, reactive dog is much more barky and reactive when he is with her than when he is with other people, e.g. her sister and her pet sitter. She was wondering why. I suggested five possible reasons, and I’ve come up with a couple more since.
First, dogs who really dislike being alone may exhibit unusually affiliative behavior with anyone who relieves their solitude – and if they are dogs who also have anxiety around strangers, their need for company can trump their fear of strangers in some cases. I once fostered a dog who turned out to have clinical separation anxiety (among many other quirks). He was scared of me when we first met and he was in the company of another foster parent. But the second I got him to my house, he was all charm, wiggling like mad and wanting to sit on my lap. He can’t stand being alone so … any port in a storm
Second, some dogs resource-guard their owners. This isn’t protectiveness; the dog isn’t responding to some perceived threat to the owner. Instead, the dog is treating the owner as a valued possession and is [Read more...]








